Friday, August 20, 2010

For all you men out there. What does your girlfriend have 2 do so you can spend more time with her on da weken

Can you men out there tell me why my boyfriends likes hanging out with his friends on weekend nights rather than with me. How can i make him spend more time with me. We live together but mornings he works and when he gets home i go to skool. I take care of our baby mornings he takes care of her till i get home witch is 10:15pm. He thinks just because he see's me everyday thats enough but its not. So can you men tell wut i have to do to catch his attention more often.For all you men out there. What does your girlfriend have 2 do so you can spend more time with her on da weken
I think all men are like this girl and I have the same problem with my husband! What I have found that works the most is : think back to when you were first dating and everything was exciting and fresh. Think about the thing you did with him then and the way you were with him then. Men are very simple creatures.... all you have to do is find a way to fascinate him. Find out what he like to do with his friends and see if you can interest him in doing some of that stuff with you. For example : see if you can get him to maybe drink beer and watch the game with you this weekend istead of his buddies. Or maybe you could get together with him to play some playstation. Im not sure what your guy is into, but im sure you know what I mean. Just try and keep him interested and maybe he will want to hang around with you more.For all you men out there. What does your girlfriend have 2 do so you can spend more time with her on da weken
Well, you could drive (slowly) the guy to the meetings with his buddies, and be sure to be there when he's ready to come home. Well, at least, this will give you a few more minutes with him each way.





Or, you could find someone (male) else to spend your weekends with and just forget the bum for those pleasant few hours away from him.
thats a hard one. Maybe hes getting sick of seeing you all the time, this can happen sometimes. Its always good to give a guy some space, this can help your relationship last longer.
Get one of your friends or family to tend the baby Friday and Saturday and take your man for a 2 day tour. Start with dinner out Friday night - or a picnic in the living room floor.


Dress sexy.
oh please it's in there genes. when nascar comes on, it's a good 4 + hours. i call it'; ignore _______(my name here) day';


ahh what are you gonna do...........
good ?, when you figure out the answer to it, you let the rest of us women know. LOL
He sounds like a typical immature male. No offense, I was once dating one. But, what's really hard is that you are going to school and have a kid, so it's not like you can just head on over to your girlfriends' houses and chill while he's with his buddies. I'm assuming that you trust him and don't suspect foul play. If so, then let him have a bit of space, but talk to him about how you'd like to spend more time w/ him (don't whine) and that this is really important to you. Don't talk to him late at night, during the game, or when he's headed out. Maybe schedule a regular date night with him. That way he knows he'll get to go out with the guys and you know you'll get to spend time together on a regular basis. Good luck. He'll grow out of it with time. Some take longer than others too. Especially if their fathers were that way- could be a REEEEal long time. He also might see you as the mother of his child more now that the initial lovey dovy feelings of new relationships fade. That's normal, but he may not realize. Take time for just the two of you without the kid if at all possible. Trust me, I know it's hard sometimes, especially when you may not have much money. But do something that you both like, or at least that he enjoys, like going to a sporting event, going camping, x-box, whatever manly stuff he likes to do. It doesn't matter what you do, just that the two of you can do it togehter. GOOD LUCK GIRL!
Two words, Happy Hour. 4-7pm, Or Brunch. You get to go to the nicest resturaunts in town that you thought were too expensive. You get drink specials and cheap food. Put on your sexyest outfit that drives him nuts, perfume and some make up. Don't answer your cell phones unless it's the baby sitter.Then go on a nice cheap date. Radio stations give away tickets to local things, tell them you need a date night. Make Saturday night. Have him tell his buds its his date night. When you get home to relieve the baby sitter the kid should be in bed so you can wrap up the date. Praise the heck out of him for a romantic night. Attack him when the baby sitter leaves. If he isn't for the one on one time with you. On the weekends get a sitter and you go hang with your girls. Or tell him he needs to take the kid with him when he hangs out with his buds. Make a trade, Date night for you and you watch the kid on the weekends, or if there is no date night he doesn't get laid and he takes the kids with him when he hangs with his crew. It's not fair that he gets to go play and you don't.

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