Monday, August 16, 2010

Is it a sin to make out with your Gf/BF? How about ';feeling/touching';?

i am a christian...i have a girlfriend who is a christian as well...we believe in waiting untill mariage but we make out...and sometimes it turns into feeling/touching... is that a sin? when have we crossed the line...i know its not intercourse so is it still sinning if were not going all the way?Is it a sin to make out with your Gf/BF? How about ';feeling/touching';?
i am a christian as well so this is my answer from that prospective...


i feel it is not a sin to make out. and as far as ';crossing the line'; i think that is up to you. you should set boundaries for yourself. take time and think and pray about it. i think it's awesome that you want to save yourself til marriage! :) for me, it is crossing the line when ';private areas'; are touched. keep it sweet and compassionate by holding her hands.. her face... maybe fingers in the hair? idk w/e you're comfortable with.. think of it as if she were your future wife who you have saved yourself for, would you want her doing what you all are doing with a man? if not, then crossing the line.. if it's ok, then i say you're alright! good luck.Is it a sin to make out with your Gf/BF? How about ';feeling/touching';?
I don't think it's a sin to make out before you're married. Hell, I hope it isn't, or I'm definitely going to hell b/c I've kissed my fair share.





The Bible says premarital sex is wrong. That is a sin.


Although I haven't read it cover to cover, I highly doubt it says kissing is a sin.





Keep in mind, the Bible says you can be forgiven for all your sins...and I doubt that you'll go to hell for kissing your girlfriend.





As for touching... only do what you're comfortable with, emotionally and spiritually.
It depends on the 2 of you to decide what is being a sinful christian or not. In my opinion, (and I am christian) ...what you are doing is okay and it is not a sin. If both of you do not agree with pre-marital sex then don't do it. But, its up to the 2 of you to decided when too much is enough. If you are against pre-marital sex then it probably means no sexual activity but I think what you are doing is fine. If you are both okay with it, do it.
1st of all i think its great that u are waiting but in my eyes i dont think god thinks sex is all that bad.. it is human nature. feeling and touching isnt all that bad. curiosity is human nature as well. the way i look at it is,if we werent ment to have sex, then why did god make it so much fun.. you know humans and one other animal i cant think of at the moment actually have sex for pleassure. almost all the animals in the world dont feel sex like we do, so dont take that for granted. have fun
don't worry about if its a sin or not as long as you love her and use 2 are not cheating on each other


try to make it last a long time its a very normal thing


to do that feeling/touching





just wait till after high school to have sex so she dont end up pregnant


its hard for girls to go back to school when they have a baby



You can have sex before marriage unless you two don't believe you should, a sin is what stains your mind and makes you feel bad, I think if you don't feel horrible about it spiritually it isn't a sin, but sometimes it can be taken too far in that regard.
welll


haha im not gonna act innocent


but if you wanna know the truth, in this book study thing i did for my youth group it talked about sitting down at dinner and looking at your favorite food, smelling it, but not eating it.


kinda like, making out, its wrong to tease ourselves by doing that knowing we cant go all the way.


am i making any sense?


the book explained it a lot better
don't worry about sinning. do what feels right to you.


what your head and heart tell you is what you should go for.


if they tell you the right things, i guess you are a true christian.





my head told me the wrong things i guess.


i'm agnostic...


i wouldn't have in any other way. i love sex



no, its not a sin.





if you believe in sex before marriage then stick to that. intercourse doesnt happen until you put it in her, so even if you play with each others parts its not a sin either.
its not a sin! you guys have needs! u only live once, live it! life is short. touch, feel eachother, have dry sex, but its a good idea to wait till marriage to really have sex, thats a very smart thing to do.
if u guys love each other u don't have to feel guilty..u are not in the street w.some hoe trying to make out..is with someone that u love respect and share the same believes.
Ask the religious leader at your church if you really want to know the answer. If you are just looking for random permission ... ask here.
How can something supposedly bad feel so good? Its perfectly fine.
MAN DONT WORRY!





IF YOURE WEE-WEE DOESNT GO INSIDE HER VA-JAY-JAY THEN ITS NOT CONSIDERED PREMARITAL SEX!!!
That's perfectly fine. If the make-out session turns passionate, go with it, you really don't have to have sex.
well its more of how you feel about it


if you feel likes its a bad thing and you regret it


then yes its bad
lol


woww


i would just LOVE to meet your parents


NO its not a sin geesshh
no.
dude, it's ok to make out, just don't have sex.
Your bullshit religion has brainwashed you. You will not go to hell for making out and touching your girlfriend. You will not go to hell if you have sex before marriage. It's all the lies your church has taught you over the years that has you feeling guilt and shame.

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