I've been going out with the most amazing girl in the world...i love her so much...but sometimes i think she tells me stuff to make me feel happy and she keeps on tring to make me jealous...i love her alot...and i dont feel like she is loveing me as much as i do.....how do i make her love me more?...and give me nore attention?How to make your girlfriend give you attention?
Your question is multifaceted, so I'll try to answer each part in turn.
1) If she is intentionally trying to make you jealous then it is mostly likely because she worries about how you feel about her. I know that's completely illogical from a guy's point of view, but it's probably true. Try telling her how much you care about. Don't just assume that she knows. This should make her more secure, and hopefully cut out some of the mind games.
2) You really can't *make* someone love you against their will--but you *can* get more attention from her. You have two choices: you can either play manipulative mind games (which'll probably make things worse in the end), or you can do things that show her how much you care. A romantic dinner, a sensual full body massage, whatever. Make her feel good, and she'll most likely make it worth your while. Just make sure you're not being too clingy. If she acts like she needs a little space it doesn't mean she don't love you. She just needs a little breathing room. She may be the love of your life, but that doesn't mean she should *be* your life. You can be incredibly in love without being codependant on the other person.
Most of all, make sure you have good communication. Seriously, it may sound kind of lame, but it's essential if you want to have the relationship work out in the long run. Tell her you care about her. Tell her you concerns. And listen to hers. Not only will good communication make both of you happier--it makes for some incredible sex!How to make your girlfriend give you attention?
don't wear pants!!!
that would get my attention ;)
kill her cat
Well, you can't really MAKE someone love you. If she's not as into you as you are her, then unfortunately that's kinda the way it is. But you can still give it a chance. Show her how you can be there for her, show her a different side of you. Girls like that. But don't be all mushy gushy like ';Oh I love you so much, please be interested in me and only me.'; That's creepy. Just try to open up to her and show her that you really want the relationship to work out. As for the jealous part, if you two are close enough that you can talk to her about it, I DEFINITELY say do it. She needs to know how you're feeling. Maybe she's not doing it on purpose, so if you give her a heads up, she might stop.
There is always an imbalance of power in a relationship, the one who loves the least has the power, as you have found out. You can't make her love you more, that has to be done willingly, and not knowing the extent of your relationship it would be impossible to say. Just remember that girls like a challenge, so being a little hard to get doesn't hurt.
You can't make anyone love you honey.
She is trying to make you jealous because she doesn't want anyone to take you away from her.
Call her out on the jealousy, and tell her she doesn't have to do it and that she has you.
You have to determine what type of attention she is being neglectful on and tell her what you want more of and 9 times out of 10 she will get right to work on it. She can't fix it if you don't tell her.
Sounds like you are suffocating your girlfriend. Girls don't stay with needy guys. they may pick them up due to some kind of mom complex but they always end up leaving them when they find another puppy to take care of. Try ignoring her. Also, if you had more self-confidence you would be less jealous.
OK- so its a good sign that she tries to make u jealous, that means she really cares on what you think, besides, sometimes for us girls is just fun, kinda like teasing. you can't ';make'; anyone love you more, it just happens, just reallyyyyy slow, and the more you think about it the less its gonna seems to ever happen ( like sex). However, you can do stuff for her to give you more attention, how bout starting with yourself?- that way it can be reciprocal. Also give her little hints and comments- like '; oh i loved that time when you _____'; or ';i would like it if you ______'; remember to b careful in the way u say it, u dun wanna sound whiney or like you're kinda scolding her, say it when u two are in flirtatious moods. No matter what, give her more time, sometimes girls just need more reassurance of the other persons feelings for them to be able to expose their own.
Hope this helped and get back at me to tell me if u tried it or not and if u were successful.....
try making no contact with her for a week, if she really loves you then she will ask the big why?
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